Digital communications are “sticky.” Anything communicated through digital media remains accessible indefinitely, which is great news when you have . . . great news. Accomplishments are easy to share, easy to track, and kids and teens can find forums for positive require hiring personnel to do online searches of job candidates.
Adults and teens need to be proactive in developing a positive online presence. As parents and mentors, we want to help our youth build an online reputation that is an asset rather than a liability.
Here’s a quick outline of what media can do for your child’s reputation, as well as a description of how each action can support positive growth or create risk.
This can support positive growth by . . . providing a way to share and celebrate successes, like finishing a race, acting in a play, or publishing an article in the school paper. It can also document a pattern of success that will follow them into future academic and professional opportunities and open doors among others with similar interests.
This can put users at risk by . . . making information accessible online that might compromise your security or that you don’t want others to see. Help teens limit who can view profiles and blogs. Review facebook privacy setting here (in ACCOUNT—> PRIVACY SETTINGS). Click through each item to confirm that “friends only” may view photos, etc. Check each feature and consider disabling all Facebook apps. These add-on features in Facebook, give the app creator permission to have some of your personal information.
This can support positive growth by . . . providing a place where they feel heard and acknowledged, with the freedom of distance inherent in mediated communication. That is, youth may be more likely to express themselves openly when there is low risk of in-person challenges.
This can put users at risk by. . .allowing youth to feel anonymous, enabling them to say and do things they wouldn’t otherwise say or do. Given that youth already lack judgment due to an unfinished frontal lobe, taking away another layer of safety could increase their risk of posting something they don’t foresee as harmful.
Here are a few conversation starters for talking about online reputation with your students:
Video: Here are the real-life stories of two college freshmen and how their online reputation affected their opportunities: Project PRO video for einteractions that speak to their awesomeness.
But, these same features can pose a problem when something online could damage your reputation. Positive online reputations matter:
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* From our friends at Reputation.com: Five Online Reputation Management Tips for Students
1. Johnston, Stuart J.”Microsoft Survey: Online ‘Reputation’ Counts.” 27 January 2010. Retrieved fromhttp://www.internetnews.com/webcontent/article.php/3861241/Microsoft-Survey-Online-Reputation-Counts.htm